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Asking questions

One of my pet signatures reads “No question is stupid if I ask it!”. I am of the opinion that in any marriage, love or arranged, it is very important that the couple ask many many questions and get to know each other before they enter into a lifelong relationship. That’s what I told Anjali very soon after we started talking. Ok, ok, her full name is Geethanjali and I call her Anjali. Last month, NYT had a very interesting article titled “Questions Couples Should Ask Before Marrying”, which I found in its “Most Popular” section. Now, we are discussing all the points mentioned in that. I highly recommend it for all couples 🙂 A very relevant example – “Does each of us feel fully confident in the other’s commitment to the marriage and believe that the bond can survive whatever challenges we may face?” MSNBC reviews this set of questions here very well. Its bottomline is “A strong couple won’t have trouble discussing important issues about compatibility and handling inevitable differences. But it’s short-sighted to think any answers lie in a list of questions”. There is a Muslim set of questions targeted at the male here, not all of which are good, but still worth a glance. What do you think, people?

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  1. sk
    28 January 2007 at 10:06 pm

    Hey true Spark.
    Its important to understand each other’s taste on various things to see you can get along well. If you dont get along, atleast it wont come as a surprise after the wedding.
    Good good. :–)

  2. 29 January 2007 at 8:06 am

    well spoken as an experienced lady, sk.

  3. 29 January 2007 at 11:05 am

    True… I had read the NYT article when it came out. Very interesting read I should say…

  4. 30 January 2007 at 11:42 am

    jax, you’ll read it again, won’t you?

  5. Jax
    30 January 2007 at 12:33 pm

    Maybe once when I decide to get hitched 😉

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